I was in a traumatic Motorbike accident 10 Dec 2008, was unconscience for 6 days, broke both forearms (got plates in them now), brain injury, couldn't talk for two weeks, couldn't walk for a month and in hospital for a month and a half, been booked off work till June 2009! I'm patient and reliable, warmhearted and loving, persistent and determined, placid and security loving, but on the dark side, I can be jealous and possessive, resentful and inflexible, self-indulgent and greedy. I have a need for other people to like and admire me, and yet I tend to be critical of myself. While I have some personality weaknesses I’m generally able to compensate for them. I have considerable unused capacity that I have not turned to my advantage. I'm disciplined and self-controlled on the outside, but I tend to be worrisome and insecure on the inside. At times I have serious doubts as to whether I have made the right decision or done the right thing. I prefer a certain amount of change and variety and become dissatisfied when hemmed in by restrictions and limitations. I also pride myself as an independent thinker; and do not accept others' statements without satisfactory proof. But I have found it unwise to be too frank in revealing myself to others. Most times I’m extroverted, affable, and sociable, while at other times I’m introverted, wary, and reserved. Some of my aspirations tend to be rather unrealistic, but most of them I achieve. I enjoy reading short stories, dancing [break-dancer], basketball, fashion, modeling [I model for Public Image Models], Capoeira, Muaythai [Professional Fighter], Mixed Martial Arts, fitness, health, wellness, socialising, networking and technology. I love my sport and a bit of a fitness freak, training 6 days a week. Playing basketball, the team I played for won the WCBA league in 2008 and second in 2009. I also do Muaythai and teach it. 2007 I was awarded Protea Colours for Muaythai to compete at the IFMA World Championship in Bangkok and made it to the quarter finals.